Family
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My new mission—finding my brother’s twin
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2 min read
I had to stay up late for a site launch in Australia and just realized that at this exact moment four years ago I was up simultaneously singing Happy Birthday for Charlie and saying goodbye. My exhausted mother, who was up for at least 48 hours, maybe more, fell asleep in bed with him. My…
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Eulogy for my grandfather—Jack Cacciabondo
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8 min read
September 25, 1942 ~ September 19, 2021 (age 78) On September 24, 2021, I delivered the following eulogy for my grandfather. Thank you for coming today to honor my grandfather, Jack Cacciabondo. To some here, he was family – a loving husband, father, grandfather, an uncle or brother-to others, a valued friend, a fierce competitor on the greens,…
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A COVID Reunion
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1 min read
It’s been far too long, but today I *finally* got to see my grandfather (fully vaccinated)! Had to take a trip to the doctor and snuck in a pit stop at McDonald’s. Even better news, this goodbye wasn’t as hard because the State of Illinois is allowing visits starting this weekend. For all people with…
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2020: A year to remember
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8 min read
Who didn’t have a crazy year in 2020? I sure did. Finally, on this third day of 2021 I am pausing to reflect on this year because it will be one I want to remember the rest of my life. Highlights Moved home and moved in with my grandparents and my boyfriend Started a job…
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Remembering my brother on Easter
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2 min read
When Charlie was in the PICU, and then came home for his final hours, in his right hand was an olive wood cross from Bethlehem. His amazing godparents got it for him. Charlie held onto that thing for days, which was super strange given his level of Cerebral Palsy and lack of muscle control. Him…
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The Gift: How my brother with 95% brain damage taught me more about life than anyone else
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9 min read
My brother died on his 13th birthday. Charlie’s story is one of perseverance, strength and incredible love.